Ben has crossed over to the dark side, thankfully it was not that painful. My younger man is now in his forties.
Recently he started wearing reading glasses and a few weeks ago he rolled his ankle. He came down stairs in black socks with his glasses and using a cane telling me this is what the next forty years looked like. I'll take it.
We celebrated with some friends at Stiles Switch. I actually pulled off a surprise.
I love you, Ben.